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SO,
YOU HAVE
FOUND YOURSELF
A HUMAN DOG

 

Every Master is unique, so are puppies but there are certain pointers and guidelines which should make the general adjustment to your new life easier and more rewarding. Remember that this is a partnership, a man and his dog, don't loose sight of what you both are getting out of it, the main reason why you are playing this way, persona that this puppy expressing, is he a work-dog or household pet ?

Only when you have a fully trained pup will you both be happy, the training of your pup will give you both a lot of pleasure. Often Dog+Trainer/Owner relationships tend to be long term, where as a Dog+Handler is just that short term, handlers for an event or scene. Typically in real life, a dog is matched up to his Owner, they have a working relationship, the dog learns what his Master/Owner wants what the orders mean.
The he/she is a canine or pig for you, for many reason, some of which my include:

    These are two ends to the perspective.

  • Because he can feel the animal inside, I think of it as an 'animal soul', a wider sense of expression that is unavailable to a traditional slave, and may not be into SM at all.
    This Human Canine/Bovine, many or may not be submissive, good working relationships are between the alpha-dog, the pack leader, and the submissive dog. This tends to work well as the 'Master' knows well what the dogslave wants, as he thinks on the same way length, but from the DOM view point.
  • Because he is massively submissive, is nothing but an animal to be badly treated, used and abused. Was into SM anyway.

 

Consistency

The Trainer/Owner/Handler are more appropriate words than Master, has to be consistent. As with a real animal if you are going to teach it anything you have to communicate a consistent message. Anything else will only confuse the K9 and you both loose.

The Trainer sets the rules, so he has to remember them as well as the dog - the rules must be adhered to. These rules maybe jointly set in the very beginning, as the trainer develops he can grow the scope of the rules as the dog achieves.
Dogs are not into Mind-Games, if you want to piss-about there are other scenes to explore (try interrogation scenes).

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Communication

Nice and clear.
You are not dropping hints to your lover that you want a cup of tea. These are nice, crisp, clear, concise, unambiguous instructions, giving no room for interpretation, or thought from the dog, except that it is his Masters wish, he wants to please him above all else. This is the difference between:

dog and bone training

  1. Do you want to lie down on the bed ?
  2. Get on the bed Now!
    Face down,
    Hands stretching to the corners,
    Feet 3 foot apart,
    Cock and balls exposed,
    Ass cheeks open,
    "Now shut the fuck up"
    Bitch!

Likewise your body language is not to communicate a different message to what you are saying. You are to present consistent message in all your expression - at least act as though you are confident.

Insecure 'masters' riddled with self-doubt are not at their most effective when they are supposed to have commanding authority over their dog! The dog might bite back, and dom you.
Otherwise you might want to consider how you are going to master the skill of Total Control

There has to be a time when you talk, in a neutral space, where feedback is cleanly expressed, neither of you are mind-readers, but with the proper training you dog will seem like one. This is the beauty (IMHO) of a well trained slave, that he does exactly what you want of him, he reads you and obeys, almost before you have ordered him (TD:that's   you "stomper"-philC in Sydney), any dog can be the same, if you let him.

You have to communicate your satisfaction or dissatisfaction with his performance, immediate reward or punishment is required, it must be consistent. Positive reinforcement of the message, talking/pepping him up, with "Good Boy", or "BAD, BAD boy" and a quick smack of the crop/belt, not to excess, as required - remember he wants to please you, he wants to do good for you, if you let him.

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Training

You have come to realise that there needs to be regular (real life) training, there is only something that can be done is cyberspace, via CUseeme, there is no substitute for practical experience.
You have to instil a set of behaviour in him, which you have to monitor.
It would not hurt in anyway to got to real life dog training classes and see what is expected, like wise there is the great video Command Performance (NSTC format). He has to learn obedience training from you, you have to have total control, there are many ways to achieve this

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Image

You are supporting this image that he has (or you want of him), this includes all the trapping that support this, the chain locked around his neck or the dog collar. How you use his collar and leash. What he is wearing: he may have a special uniform/costume that supports his role - or the venerability of nakedness just as with real animals.

He has an internal and external view of himself that his is to support, he has rules that support his position. Like eating out of his dog bowl, when you show affection you can give him doggy orientated gifts, you may give your lover a bouquet of flowers, but not to your dog. Once you know the level of identity that your dog has, you will know if a doggy bone, training equipment, or other doggy treats are appropriate.

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Commitment

Unlike just a bit of SM play, where a Master uses a slave as a toy, a play-thing; dog training takes some effort. It is easy to abuse someone, especially if they want you to, but have you considered how much time you are going to spend on your dogs training.  Your dog, you have got for life, where as playing with a stray (occasional weekend play), you are just a trainer so you enjoy it for the moment - your commitments are different. Long term ownership a  dog (slave) has the benefit seeing him grow and develop, you can develop for more ambitious training plans. The weekend dog (that you may never see again), you just use what you got.

A little and often is far better huge session with a long interval between them that he can forget what he has learnt, or you forgot what you have done.
Remember that Sex, Play and Training are quite different .

Training
Giving him skills, the learning phase. He is building in his head, what is required. Understanding what is required of him.
Play
Using those skills, playing with them like, learning to use them, where is Master can testing his ability with no bad recourse or punishment. Like doing Maths examples at school, is just practise.
Sex
Using them for real, being examined. The Master needs to see what his dog has learnt, and enjoy the fruits of their labour.



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# Obedience Training To be respected as a Master, your dog should be obedient. Sure, you can muzzle it to make it keep its mouth shut or tie its knees to its elbows to keep it on the ground, but the dog should be able to behave like a good dog without those devices.

# Slave Profile Can show you things that trigger him, and so you know his motivators.

# Slave advice and Slave types This is advice that has been given to a slave, he want to please his Master.

# Slave types
The wide variety of slaves available
# Owner
Now that you have found a boy that wants to be a human dog for you, there are special needs that differ from that of a traditional slave
# The Mc Dade Principles
Obedience is the goal. Practised constantly, it is the only mentality and thought, that will allow a potential slave to develop into his slavery. A slave's only pleasure is from obeying. These principles allow a slave to obey, at all times and in all circumstances.

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The The Society of Janus also suggest the following advice:

 

Be patient! Until you enter into a contract with a submissive, you have no more right to order him around than does anyone else. Give your bottom time to get to know you and what you are like. Finesse and subtlety are major elements of dominance. Similarly, strength and gentleness go hand in hand. The sensitivity and awareness (or lack thereof) that you show in the real world is likely to be repeated in the playroom.

Be humble. You may be God's greatest gift to the world, but no one needs to hear it or wants to hear it. You will have ample opportunities to show how good you are - and plenty of opportunities to make a fool of yourself. No matter what you claim, the "real you" will show through in a scene. Don't set yourself up for a failure by developing expectations that you know you can never reach.

Be open.
Although the Master is classically considered to be the teacher in SM, you can always learn from your bottom, no matter how inexperienced. Be willing to learn from other dominants who may have a totally different perspective from yours. Try to approach by-now-familiar trips with an attitude of wonderment and discovery. Be aware that everyone has her or his own personal style.

Communicate! You are responsible for finding out basic, essential information about the people you play with, such as experience, limits, likes and dislikes, and health information. Playing SM without this knowledge is like Russian roulette. Talk about your head-space and your view of SM with your bottom, so that any uncertainties can be dealt with before you start playing. Clearly spell out roles, rules, limits, and contracts. Do not take for granted that your bottom instinctively knows the ground rules.

Be honest. If you lack experience in an area that your bottom would like to experiment with, be honest about it. Your partner has a right to know that. Be honest with yourself and take your submissive only to those levels at which you are completely in control of the situation. Safety should always be the first concern, taking priority over how hot a particular scene is.

Be sensitive. There's a very fine line between a sensitive, caring dominant and a self-righteous, insensitive overbearing clod. Your scene should be a creative synthesis of your needs and fantasies and your bottom's needs and fantasies. Although, on the surface, your submissive is serving you, what actually is happening is that dominant and submissive are serving each other. Earn the complete trust of your submissive and never violate or even threaten to violate that trust. His or her submission is a gift to you. Use it appropriately.

Be realistic. End the scene with the bottom wanting more, not wishing there had been less. Remember that power, control, and sensitivity are the keys, not just the intensity of the stimulation. Be clear about what is fantasy, and has little to do with what works in practice. Your favourite porno picture books may be stimulating in themselves, but don't try to imitate them to the last detail.

Be really dominant!
Submissives are looking for someone who will take over their body and mind, not just for brute strength. Real people are wanted, not just cardboard images from cigarette ads or macho stereotypes. Your dominance enhances your whole existence. It does not cover up or substitute for other areas of your life - it is you. Make your submissive fall in love with you, and expect him or her to give him/herself up to you totally. Follow up on rules, expect obedience, and punish appropriately when it is called for. Don't shirk your responsibility to your bottom or to your sister/fellow Masters. Be dependable and expect dependability. You have agreed to take the dominant role - now take it!

Be healthy! Like any strenuous activity, SM requires that its participants be in Master physical and emotional health. Many factors, including the amount you sleep, your eating habits, and your alcohol and drug intake affect your performance and endurance during a scene. Don't attempt to do SM when your physical or emotional energy is low. As a dominant you have a special responsibility to be in control of yourself and on Master of the scene. An attitude of "drugs and alcohol don't affect me that much... I can do it anyway" violates your Submissives trust in you and can be dangerous. If you don't want to accept the responsibilities, you shouldn't be playing the game!



 

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