 | Limits & |
| These are some of the worst phrases I have heard for a long time. It seems so cool to say, "Yeah! I've done it all - Im into everything, I can take whatever you can give" personally this pisses me off Big Time. Saying that you are into 'Everything' says nothing except about your attitude. Be careful of meaningless words like:
These mean different things to different people, between a novice and old hand. | ||
| Say what you mean! | This guy is into Fisting, having all sorts of things shoved up his ass, hands bottles, toys stuffed like the piece of meat he is. | You offer to give him an enema, he freaks out saying he is not into that, and runs away. He can handle the risk of having his insides torn out by someone lacking skill - but a cleaning with water! A Top may assume that if you are into Fisting that you are used to cleaning yourself out for him in readiness. |
"Im really into heavy CP." | Does this mean you can take 2 hits of the belt. Take you like bruises? Drawing Blood ? Kicked around like a football? Cracked ribs or ruptured kidneys are ok? Urban Myth: One guy was kicked almost half to death, and to the amazement of the Top, the sub looked up at him and said "Is that the best you can do!!!" That man was later found dead in the Cruising ground. | |
Long term Bondage | The longest continuous scene that I have ever had is 27 hours, typically they last 4 hours or till the early hours - that is not unusual. Are you looking for more or less that that ? What happens if Cramp sets in, is that part of painful intense bondage or should he untie you ? | |
Into Filth | Mud ? Stench ? Shit ? On body or eat it ? | |
Into Piss | What you like to piss your jeans ? Get pissed on ? Forced to drinking: how, when and when he wants? Your piss, his piss out of a toilet? | |
| Some things are so basic, you assume that they apply to every one. | Safe Sex Sane Sex | This means different things to different people, something's have a margin of safety attached to them:
Define what YOU mean by: |