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Verbal can be both positive and negative. It can raise the slaves spirits up or crush them to the earth - This is just a a technique chosen for your objective.

My preference is to positively motivate the pup/slave - another slave might respond to terror. Studies show that you have to find the right balance of the 'carrot and stick' approach. Terror is replaced with 'a healthy respect'.
It might be hard to imagine that a slave would 'enjoy' genuine terror - like when the fantasy is over then what? Are Terror and Trust compatible - is that the same of being sure that this guy is gonna harm you intentually (not through incompetence).
 

Verbal  ^


This is basically name calling, being verbally abusive. Some Tops and slaves get off on it.
Typically calling guys "Trailer Park Trash", "Scum", "Filth", "Ass-Features", "Shit-face", "Fag" (film actors guild) etc.
Often a the effect like physical abuse, and slaves gets off on his status being clarified

  • Verbal Humiliation
  • Verbal Abuse
  • Verbal dialog

 

Head Space Dialog ^


Self Talk

This gets closer to hypnotic suggestion, where you use words and dialogs to conjure up images and feeling that the pup can positively or negatively associate with. To my mind there this is an art in itself as the Master is also taking ob the visual journey with his slave. Areas to research would be story telling in the application of creative visualization, Cabbalistic magic thorough to post hypnotic suggestion.

Positive

Making him feel good...

Negative
  • to be listed
Verbal Abuse^


The point of verbal abuse is to low self esteem in your victim. You need to check with your slave what he means by Verbal Abuse, he might think of it as you calling his a dirty slutty dog which is congruent with his self image - that is covered in another section.  When it is not congruent and goes against his self image then you get closer to the abuse side. This is where you can:
  • Systematically destroy the subjects self image as compared to modifying or enhancing it.
  • Ridicule the slave, especially in front of others, or in front a a mirror.

Also see breaking the will of the subject.
An  Original site Last changed on:  04 Sep 2002 19:42 +0100