This is quite a common example. We are used to the status of
Masters and servants, where servers could be extended to slaves
because of poor conditions of employment. Conditions could be
that food and accommodation is a condition of employment,
but financially they have no liberation. An example of this
would be when the storm hit New Orleans and people were
criticized for not leaving - how could they? When they live hand
to mouth with a weekly welfare payment. This was a common system
in feudal times of controlling the peasants if all they worried
about was fighting off starvation, an uprising was not high on
the list.
This is
where you get the White Power / Black Power supremacist to
function. For a white slave boy having a white power/nazi
skinhead for a Master is the personification of power.
Pay For Sex
There
are some people who look forward to the day when they will ever
only every to get sex by paying for it. They start off with
needing to buy gifts for their 'Masters'. For such a scene don't
accept a cheque as that is cancelled the moment they have shot
their load.
However
these seem to break into two types, one might be the husband is
having sex with a man to fill a need then going back to his wife
to fit into normality. A tricky choice if you marry a Bisexual
by default your marriage can only sustain one side of him or
her.
Another type is
the person that has more than enough money, might make himself
as unattractive as possible and determines your worth by
negotiating at what price you will drop your standards. Part of
his fun is just fishing to see how much you are worth.
So who do you think the real Master is there?
The guy that
pisses on him or the guy that has the cash?
Social Cast
I know of a lawyer that gets a real kick out of going with
someone that is substantially below him job wise - eg social
worker. This also comes where you have a lawyer or
barrister in court doing his big powerful job but the court
cannot see that all his body hair has been shaved off and that
he is wearing diapers and a chastity belt.
Playing with Fire
This happens to a minor degree when you want 'a bit of rough'
this ranges from having sex from the gardener or the builder you
have in at your house (often the frustrated housewife syndrome)
to putting yourself at risk for a thrill to cruising army boys
in the woods. In a time where there was a lot of homophobia in
the army this was balanced against your sexual needs.
So you
could find someone in the woods and you had anonymous sex with
them - sadly there were also deaths. Where after the 'straight'
guy came he had guilt and battered the Queer for defiling him or
the risk of being exposed. There is always excitement of the
unknown or the thrill of edge play.
Traditional Role Inversion
Well this covers a good few areas to. From
babyplay to Sons topping dads.
The
top son role has the situation where the younger guy is
attracted to older guys. Then he just happens to be active. It
'normal' for the older guy to fuck the younger guy.
However
some guys really get off on humiliating and degrading people
their Dads age.
I
knew of one guy (used to live his his Girlfriend) but from his
late teens he used to top older guys (to help with his college
fees). His main trick was to force the 'dads' to eat all his
shit from his ass.
He had the the right persuasive skills to
make sure they could take all he could give - this they paid
for. Things might have been different if he did not have a
girlfriend (that was ok about this?), and if he was cute and
that be played football on Sundays.
This is also part of the role of the 'rent boy' where you pay
for his youth, though many rent boys enter that profession as a
last resort - like it would not occur to them if they had more
money than sense.
It is usual that rent boys run risks of
abuse and
death in times past. It can also be earning his money the
hard way, living from trick to trick, always on the lookout for
a quick buck, either from hustling or stealing. This is typical
if drug/alcohol dependency is involved.
This is still part of the role of the slave to suffer for his
god - we all need a god it seems or to be one. There can be a
sense of power and fulfilment when you are encased in your
leather and you have someone under you boots, and if that
someone should normally be your better, you are even more
empowered.
This
might come from years of a real parent 'kicking down' his son
and the son wanting to turn the tables. It is common that the
younger guys that like older dads seek the security of the
father image. Where as you would need to be a confident and self
sustaining guy to take on the challenge of dominating an older
guy. It sometimes happens that the son is very tall and people
just respect people taller than you - this is a problem tall
slaves have when they are looking for a Master, everyone assumes
they are. At a formative stage if everyone treats you like a
top, then maybe you are!
His class are dirty
You can say his has fleas/lice, so you will require him to slave
his body, cock/balls ass - as well as chest and armpits.
Get
all the flea infested hair off. Even inferring his is dirt by
virtue of his class will further put him down. This happens on
an inter class basis. Not really possible if you are both
socially equal, unless you can create false comparisons between
each other
Cross Dressing & Sissification
This is more common in the Dom female sub male arena. But this
is also to take on characteristics and virtues of that role. A
woman is soft and gentle and is free from the complication of
modern life that real men have to deal with. You as a sissy are
not capable of dealing with such matters.
So you have the
enforced feminization which is part of the emasculation of the
male or you have the man taking refuge in this role.
This also happens that people with powerful, stressful job relax
by being a slave in the private life, where all responsibility
is lifted/taken from them. This articles is not exploring
Transgender/Transvestite needs only in so far as from an
SM perspective. That is where you can refer to a slave as a
'dirty little whole' or a 'filth bitch' if he looks and acts
like one.
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ageplay - The term ageplay can be used as a standard
roleplay term, but generally ageplay is a form of emotional
regression. Some enjoy ageplay because they feel a need to
express a childlike side, others may feel they are of a
psychological age younger than their physical age, and some
have dissociative child personalities
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cross-dressing - Cross-dressing is behaviour which runs
counter to those norms and therefore can be seen as a type
of transgender behaviour.
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Sissify - The House of Sissify was built upon a
solid belief of strict behaviour modification, discipline,
forced feminization, and most importantly; nurture. All that
is required to become the woman of your dreams...
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Sissyboy adverts - this coverys Sissy boys,
transvestive/transgenger dogslaves.
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House of Bondage - For two weeks, Nick Broomfield and
a documentary crew visit Pandora's Box, an up-scale house of bondage
on Manhattan's Fifth Avenue, where clients pay $175 an hour to be
subservient to mistresses. Mistresses talk about their craft; a few
clients, usually masked, are interviewed as well. Then, the camera
watches sessions organized around fetishes: rubber, wrestling,
corporal punishment, masochism, and infantilism. Mistress Raven, the
owner of Pandora's Box, explains that pain need not be part of the
subservient experience: it is, at its root, a transfer of power.
After their session has ended, clients talk about how drained,
relaxed, relieved, and at peace they are.
