Is being a slave for 24 hours a day, 7 days a week all it is
cracked up to be?
The workings of a practical working of
being a slave 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.
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If life is an investment and you spend your early years being a
slave and not developing skills on which to base the rest of
your life - you could find that you have invested in a poor
future.
- If you are going to be a total slave either your
Master can totally support you to your mutual satisfaction
OR you compromise the 24/7 and go out to work and when back with
him re-enter your slavedom.
- Whatever you do don't think
that never again will you have to face the responsibilities
of life !
- What happens if your Master dies and
leaves you destitute ?
- For all those years of
training, what if you cannot find another Master that has a
compatible mind
set to your previous Master?
Sold at Auction - This fantasy is where you are sold to a
real hot Master not the richest mistress.My
boyfriend is my Master - Well not for long he is not. All
observations so far have shown you wither have a boyfriend or
you have a Master. Your boyfriend can play the role of a Master
during sex, but after sex you are equal. The most successful
combinations tend to be you have a Master and you have a
boyfriend. Your boyfriend needs not to be the jealous type. Your
Master might have a boyfriend so you should never assume that
your Master is ever going to be 'in love' with you, this is
different to the possibility of him loving his slave.
Feeling Owned - This is where you have a Master as well as a
regular job. You may have your dog chain locked on you under
your office shirt. You may well do other rituals like keeping
yourself shaved for your Master. Your Master may well send your
horny SMS Text messages to your phone at work reminding you of
the power he has over you.Feeling Abandon - So
you still have the collar on but he is 'too busy' to text you,
to meet up with you and is indifferent about his control over
you. You feel a distance develop.
How could you cope with
this in a 24/7 ? It is common for true Master/slave
relationships to last for about 2 years or so before the slave
gets too used to the Master. Likewise the Master can feel he has
'done everything' with this slave or that he now has different
tastes (dog boy to pig boy etc).
If your Master is
important to you you have to show that you can be all things to
him where permitted. Sometimes your Master might even want you
as a surrogate boyfriend (because his current boyfriend does not
understand him); do not confuse this with becoming his 'new
boyfriend'.
If you feel a distance; do not think it is
rejection he might have had a bad week at the office or other
problems, just switch on your charms.Just a Burden
- Circumstances change. - One of you has lost his job or
is now just unemployable - if this was your Master that is
not good for the slave who was totally dependant on his
Master.
- One of you has become and addict of
drugs or alcohol - if this is your Master then you are
not safe or or your Master will be lost to his new Master.
If its the slave then your Master will look elsewhere.
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One of you has mental or physical health problems - Is this
what the other one signed up for?
For some people
with a dependant nature, the idea of having a Master (knight
is shining armour able to fix all problems) is perfect - it
can also be draining. The total control type of Master my
enjoy telling you if today you are to have sugar in your
tea, but what if he has to make every decision for you have
he has enough to do already?
Did your Master/slave sign
up to be your Carer? - The slave may be used to serving his
Master but its quite differnt being his carer. Likewise, it
is common for a Master to care for the well being of his
slave, but when the slave can no longer function as a slave
then there is a problem.
So what plan is there for a
change in circumstances?
This is not
meant to be negative as there are also many stories of happy
long term Master and slave relationships. You just need
realistic expectations and provisions for a change of
circumstances.
