There was just you, now its time to make contact with others
like your self before you go crazy.
You might want to take
gentle steps or embrace everything for the total experience.
So what are the options ?
Adverts in the Dog Pound - since 1995
You can place and advert or reply to someone else's. The
adverts are grouped by Master or Slave status, time zone
then by state/phone area code. Adverts are placed my members
who have joined.
The Doghouse brings you Chat rooms, Message boards and more.
This is like a mixture of IRC and Gay.Com, basically they
want the site to be sticky so you stay there long enough to
see the adverts. This would be a restricted area where it
would require you to log in.
This is where you are on a distribution list to a email
service. So when you send an email to that list, it gets
sent to all the other members on the list. There is also the
digest of the list, subscribing to that means that you get
the mails all in one go at the end of the month in one
batch, otherwise you get the mail as it happens.
This is like a linked list of sites that might be of some
interest to you, that may have some relationship to this
site. That is people who like this site may also like those
in the ring.
Internet Chat Relay (irc)
offers you the ability to chat much like CB (Citizen Band
radio), in AOL they call it Chat rooms, on IRC it is called
a channel. Basically you enter a place of like minded
people that have nicknames/handles and you can talk to each
other. These Channels run on servers and some of these
servers use different networks that just don't talk to each
other and are as separate as FM and AM are on your radio.
This is why you can join #GayDogSlave on one server and
network and find almost no one or go to another and find
it full. A typical network you can use is
irc.stealth.net there you will find many people close to the
European time zone and the NYC time zone others are closer
to the LA time zone. Not much point chatting if everyone is
in bed on that channel.
IRC is also a very powerful search tool -try channels
ending in "Z".
There is also a IRC home page for the channel which talks
about the common members on the IRC channel and events out
and about that relate to it.
- One of
the most widely use and most copied chat system. Just to run
really slowly until move from the owners front room into a
commercial data centre. If you are going to have a general
profile anywhere have it here. Your gaydar profile is as
ubiquitous as a business card or a mobile phone.
Gay.com - Connecting the lesbian, gay, bisexual and
This is an Java applet running on a web page. it is like
IRC, but works over HTTP, where as many company firewalls
stop IRC working. Essentially it is the same, takes a while
to start up, and there is a maximum limit per chat room.
Where as with IRC there is a maximum capacity per server.
Here you choose a language, and a region, Men -
international for example, and then click on GayCom Chat.
Then you choose a room of people to talk to.
Yahoo Clubs -
gayslaves CHAT ROOMS and More
Yahoo clubs get shut down due to the new owners of Yahoo and
some lobby groups.
Cruising for Sex
The cruisingforsex.com website is dedicated to
helping men around the world connect for sexual pleasure.
You will need a healthy attitude about your sexuality to
fully enjoy this site.
Using NetMeeting you can get in contact with people and talk
directly with them, chat online, make your date there and
see and talk to your slave as he is replying to you.
The ILS that we recommend is
ils.gaydar.co.uk and you can download the
latest copy on NetMeeting for Windows from
Yahoo/Aim but better integrated into MS products. Has pretty
superficial graphics but not the wallpaper environments that
yahoo has. Is more stable than Yahoo - tho not much in it.
You will need a dotNET (or hotmail/live account)
passport login, if you are a Hotmail user you are halfway
- Has nice
integration for voice chat, video cams (hard work if not a
logitec cam). Has good file transfer system but the whole
thing can lock up dead easy