Home » The Dog House » Members » Care and Training » Keeping a dog » Dog Care » Slave Grooming » Looking GoodFat|Fit|Hair|Skin|Shave|Zits|Nails|Sleep|Odor | Every guy knows a club or a party is a great place to find a new partner, or to cement your place in history as a desirable but unavailable hunk.
Yet there's a lot more to looking good than simply donning leather or rubber. If you don't want your self to be remembered for dandruff, dirty finger-nails and spots the size of moon-craters, bad breath or your clothes fitting like a bag of potatoes you need to take a few simple steps to make sure that every part of you is presented in the best possible condition, at a crude level you are promoting yourself in the best possible light. Now this all sounds superficial, and 'real men' do not look after themselves or use cosmetics. The reality is that the gay scene can be very bitchy, and in many places, the more insecure are prone to bitch at anyone that 'threatens' their security, so why give them anything to criticize. Likewise the gay scene (much like the muscle scene) is often looking for perfection and you are of course old, dead and buried after 30. There are advantages to age, as as for looks youth becomes sophistication - awesome Masters do not happen overnight and there is perhaps a reason that almost every one under 30 is not a Master. | | Fat|Fit|Hair|Skin|Shave|Zits|Nails|Sleep|Odor ^ | Fat | Unless you are into guys that are fat (whatever name you use), moving towards a 'good' body helps tip the cards in your favour. You might be happy being fat, you can either come to terms with it (and call yourself a bear) or you can do something about it. Dieting is not always the best choice as usually it ends up making your fatter!
The advice these days is to 'eat sensibility', and really just change your life style, not go into famine for a while then put it all back on and a little bit more. Seems that your body has adjusted your metabolism to the famine condition so eating normally puts back on the weight. The only real way to win is to increase your metabolism with a new life style that includes a gym.It helps having a motivator to make the change, get a training partner so you can motivate each other. With my slaves I like to check up their progress and if they have not met the required target - out comes the riding crop.
However to win you need to change the mind set and you need to make a commitment with yourself, and just like giving up smoking, devise strategies for success - assuming that you really want to do it.
For advice about losing weight, contact your local Weight Watchers or read
'No More Mr. Fat Guy' by Jonathon Savill and Richard Smedley.
You could make a firm REALISTIC commitment and become Fit For Life. Taking up that challenge can transform you, luckily results can be quick which is always good for the motivation.
| Fat|Fit|Hair|Skin|Shave|Zits|Nails|Sleep|Odor ^ | Fitness | getting fighting fit Fitness is more about Oxygen uptake and how your heart reacts.
David Jones of Central Training Centre in London recommends couch potatoes follow a progressive fitness programme that starts with brisk walking for 30 minutes, three days a week. Gradually increase your level of exercise until you're completing 2-3 vigorous 20-30 minute aerobic workouts each week (e.g. running, fast cycling). Your fitness should improve dramatically within three months, so the sooner you start, the better.
For online personal training, contact the Oxygen Club.
| Fat|Fit|Hair|Skin|Shave|Zits|Nails|Sleep|Odor ^ | Hair | Bad Hair day ? For fresh-looking hair, wash your hair every day and condition it at least once a week. If you suffer from dandruff, try a special anti-dandruff shampoo like Nizoral or T-GEL for four weeks.
Considering a change of hairstyle?
It may take 2-3 cuts to get there, so check out your stylist at least three months until you find one that you are happy with.
If you're thinning on top, you can buy a drug called minoxidil (often sold as Regaine) which, when rubbed into the scalp every day, could reduce your rate of hair loss after 4-6 weeks, or do what many other guys do get a sexy Crop Cut. As a control freak, I tend feel that it is the responsibility of the Master to crop the slaves hair, and to Totally control the appearance of a slave, upto that point the slave is out to market himself is the best light to attract a Master to himself.
| Fat|Fit|Hair|Skin|Shave|Zits|Nails|Sleep|Odor ^ | Skin | Sort out that skin One of the most common causes of tired, unhealthy, grey-looking skin is dehydration, both on the surface and within your body, says nutritional consultant Jane Clarke, author of Body Foods for Life.
She advises drinking at least four pints of water a day.
Using a moisturizer can also make your skin look less dry and wrinkled. Men now spend some 560 million pounds a year on toiletries so you don't need to feel embarrassed about buying one.
The first step to great skin, shave and wellbeing. A facial will work wonders with your blackheads and leave you feeling relaxed and grime-free. Use a daily facial cleanser (such as K-XS) that has ingredients for a deep pore cleansing action.
You might look red-faced for a few hours afterwards so don't do it when you are just about to go out.
| Fat|Fit|Hair|Skin|Shave|Zits|Nails|Sleep|Odor ^ | Shaves | Enjoy a close shave
Make sure your beard area is as wet as possible with warm water, maybe after a good soak in the bath, advises
David Waters, the style and grooming editor at Men's Health magazine and author of Grooming Essentials For Men.
Use a gel-type lube ( such as sold by King of Shaves, try their free samples) and shave in the direction of the hair growth and, of course, a fresh blade (Mach3 Razor by Gillette for example) for the best cut. It is always easy to leave it till the blade drags at the hair, then then that is too late.
The more lather in a product the more it will dry out your skin. It may feel good to have a lot of lather on your face, but the fact is that this lather is created by surfactants (similar to detergents) in the products which dry out your skin. As you are already scraping off natural oils when you shave you do not then want to further dry out the skin with a strong lather product. The direct opposite to this approach is to get the hair soaked, then use a shaving oil and the blade aquaplanes over the face for a very close cut.
Shaving around the ass hole is another thing indeed, so use the best method for each area. There are many myths between blade and electric shaving; for those who habitually blade shave, the hair grown out at an angle, those who habitually electric shave, the hair grows out straight, so swapping from one to the other will at first always be 'not so good' as your old method until your hair is retrained.
That said, wet shaves closer ?
A Blade that is is direct contact with your skin, even more a multi-blade that pulls on the hair before it is cut, or one that is behind a steel guard?
Other factors often apply, how many seconds do you have in the morning to shave,one that will do might be just good enough with today's life styles.
After you have blade shaved you should always use a moisturizer, these can vary in price, from a simple one such as Curel through to the vastly over price. If you care for your skin your youthful looks last longer.
| Fat|Fit|Hair|Skin|Shave|Zits|Nails|Sleep|Odor ^ | Zits and Spots | zap your zits
Most spots are best left alone to heal naturally; if you squeeze them, you run the risk of an infection making matters worse if you don't empty them cleanly in one go without traumatizing the spot which can leave you with a 'spot for life'. If one erupts at the wrong time, use a concealer. Pop into a big drugs store and browse for one that matches your skin colour. Acne needs longer-term treatment. The Acne Support Group can provide more information. | | Fat|Fit|Hair|Skin|Shave|Zits|Nails|Sleep|Odor ^ | | Clawed you way out of bed this morning ? Keep nails looking good by cutting them short (no, don't use your teeth!) and smoothing the tip with a file. A manicure a day or two before and big day will leave your nails cleaner than you've ever seen them. Likewise you should not have long nails if you are into fisting as you do not want to risk ripping through the colon inside (same thickness as a condom/Durex or sausage skin - not as strong). Having some nails is good if you are into tit-torture as they allow fine detailed play on the subjects tits, that are just not possible with out some nails. You may wish to have a fisting hand and a tit hand, or ensure that fisting gloves you use are effective protection. | Fat|Fit|Hair|Skin|Shave|Zits|Nails|Sleep|Odor ^ | Sleep | Deep and Relaxed Don't undo all your good work by overdoing it the night before, If you really want to look your best, have a glass of warm milk and an early night.
It really is true about burning the candle at both ends, and getting enough sleep (~8hrs), too much can make you tired as can a lack of fitness.
Reducing the level of stress out of your life is also a wise move, wherever possible go for the quality of life. Much stress can be down to internal dialogs going on in your head, pent up what you really want to say (to your boss, to the neighbour that keeps you awake all night). You need to be free of that baggage or able to live with it - eitherway deal with it. | Fat|Fit|Hair|Skin|Shave|Zits|Nails|Sleep|Odor ^ | Body Odor | Body Odor Personally I love the smell of a man, I love the fresh scent he has as I bury my face into his pits, pure man, just oozing masculinity.
This contrasts that the cutting acidic smell when it has gone stale, for some that is a big turn on, but less of the population fines that socially acceptable, it is possible that Mr. Right also does not - Unless you want to 'screen out' just that do not share your tastes.
My slaves find that showering everyday and not using deodorants but just being clean produces best results (your body compensates with everything you use against it it seems).
Other odors, are the over use of body scents. You will not get into many leather bars/clubs smelling like a woman, if you are going to use something, sublty is by far the best, use less than you think.
The smell mix of man/leather/rubber is a strong one. |
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