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By Mike McDadeSo, you think you want to be a slave? Whether or not to become a slave is probably the most important decision you will ever make, and it will probably be one of the most difficult. If you are truly meant to be slave, and don't pursue becoming one, you risk living unfulfilled, denying your destiny, and living with the "hole" in your life that keeps telling you that something is missing. You must be convinced that being a slave is the very best thing you can do with your life. This process will replace who you are now. Becoming a slave requires a devoted commitment to the truth. All slaves are human before being BORN. Most of the experiences required to become a slave, you cannot even imagine now, as a human. You cannot become a slave out of desperation, or out of a lack of other choices. Every day, all the way through the process, you must know that you are doing the very best possible with your life. Slavery cannot be a second choice, it must be your first choice. This is not like arranging a trip to Disneyland. This isn't entertainment. This isn't for play. It is a very serious process, and a serious commitment. This will define who you are, how you act, how you live, and what you do, for the rest of your life. The process develops through sessions that give you the chance to become informed about what that means, and time to incrementally accept and adjust to what is being learned. Ultimately, you must be made to accept absolute obedience, without the possibility of questioning your SlaveMaster, in any area, no matter how small, forever. Submitting to each step of the processes that will make you a BORN slave will be the last decision you will ever have the right to make. A slave cannot decide to become a slave; he can only decide to go through the processes that make him a slave. If a slave could decide to be a slave, he could just as easily decide not to be. This is a real process, that results in real slavery, with the same, real, lack of control and decision making that characterises slavery. This is not an agreement, this is not a legal issue, not a contract. This is a planned process. It develops an animal that cannot live in any other way, but in absolute obedience to one man, for whom he lives his life, and whose life he lives. A slave is a special creature of the universe. he is marked with a calling to do what humans cannot. he is developed, strengthened, empowered, given structure, fabric, and timbre that makes him immutable, solid in his self identity and self esteem. Complete obedience is the price of admission. Any less, and a man remains too weak to be slave. he must also experience everything necessary to know what a slave must know to live as slave, before being BORN to slavery. BORN slaves are qualified to be slaves, and know they're qualified. Becoming a slave requires a tremendous amount of effort and time, both for the slave and for his SlaveMaster. For those who are geographically separated, there is also the expense of travel. There is an emotional and psychological cost that comes from being exposed to a strong, single truth. All of life's issues, focused and placed before the slave must all be dealt with. There is no escape, and nothing goes away, it is only postponed at best. There is no way to cheat the process, and no short cuts. Regardless of experience, no one has a head start. Absolute honesty is a slave's creed, and is critical to beginning the relationship with your potential, permanent Owner, your SlaveMaster. Too much is at stake to be dishonest, and the process uncovers every truth, even those invisible to you now. It is futile even to hope that any dishonesty can succeed. There are two elements that test the mettle of a man who wants to be a slave, each of which must be examined. The first is whether or not the "seed" of slave is inside, waiting to be developed and BORN. The second is whether or not you have the courage and strength to pursue and live the lifestyle of a slave. You will be asked to invest everything you are in becoming a slave. You must know that it has value, or there is no motivation to go through the lengthy, involving processes that makes you slave. To answer whether or not a man is meant to be a BORN slave, you have either already been asked, or are now asked to write down why you want to be a slave, and why you think you were meant to be. What characteristics and interests tell you that it's right? Taking the time to examine how you feel about slavery, the self image, and why it's right, will provide a basis from which we can reach some good conclusions. It's used to minimise the error in deciding whether you should begin training into your final lifestyle. Trial and error is not a good method for this. The second question is one of courage and strength. It has been said, "The good things in life are the mortal enemies of the best things in life." When things are going well, when we feel a certain confidence about our lives, and that "little hole" that seems to be annoying us is the only distraction we have, it is hard to make a life-changing decision. If things aren't going well, then we question if we are pursuing slavery out of desperation, for a lack of alternatives. Are you willing to make a change, to invest the necessary effort in something that is so permanent and long-lasting? Is it ultimately worth risking everything you are now, for an unknown self identity, particularly when you know that society in general, most of the gay community, and much of the leather community looks with disdain and criticism at slaves? Enclosed are a list of principles that are natural for a slave, and that need to become natural for a human trainee to prepare him for his slavery. These principles are in effect whenever a trainee is in My presence, no matter what the circumstances, or the amount of time. The principles partially define the reality of slavery. They will apply for the rest of your life, not just when you feel like it, or when it appeals erotically, but always, and by another's choice. Understand what they imply in terms of the control and the reality of not having choices. Note your honest reaction. These principles will not be negotiated, nor ignored. You cannot become slave without earnestly embracing all of them, exactly as described, in addition to every order you will ever be given. It is because of the nature of slavery that they are important, not because they have arbitrarily been deemed important. If the principles are compromised, the cost is failure to produce BORN slavery, a waste of your time and Mine. The ultimate result of the training process is that a man does become slave. It isn't an option. It isn't something that you decide will happen. It happens, inevitably, so long as you continue through the sessions which produce slavery. My commitment, however, to a BORN slave, is for life. If a man goes through all the processes that make him slave, he becomes slave and creates for Me a commitment that will never end. If a potential slave cannot accept and plan to adhere to the principles by which he will live his life in slavery, he isn't ready, he has far too little commitment to the only process that I know that produces real slavery in today's society. There will be a lot experienced during the process that will demand even stronger commitment. A slave commits, in time, to only one session at a time, with the option to end between every session. It is impossible to become true slave without the willingness to co-operate in the process, to agree to the training. Living in the environment described, is a part of that training. Without a strong level of commitment to the process, a man only fights it all the way along. With such foot-dragging reluctance, if the simple basics cause a problem, it is a waste of time for a man to begin. Spend the time necessary to describe accurately, the way you feel about slavery, why you want to be slave, what that means to you, and why you think you must become slave. Regardless of how strongly you feel, slavery cannot be created. It can only be discovered and developed. There is no reason to try to convince yourself that you are meant to be slave, if you are not. Understand the principles, understand your reaction to them, then record your feelings. My first responsibility is to help you determine if you are meant to be slave. Next, to provide the training necessary to confirm that, and provide BORN slavery. Then, finally, to manage your life for the rest of your life. I, therefore, consider it important that all your questions and concerns are answered, so we can make the best possible decision about what to do. Become informed about what I believe. Metropolitan slave magazine has published both "SLAVES ARE BORN TO SLAVERY" and "DIPPED IN THE YELLOW DYE". Together, they discuss the basics of true slavery. Let Me know if you don't have access to those articles, and I'll send you reprints. My very best to you in this very serious pursuit. The world needs slaves, and I hope that you're qualified to satisfy that urgent need. The value of My life depends on your successful slavery, in truth. SLAVEMASTER'S | |
SLAVES' PRINCIPLES AND COMMITMENTMarch 16, 19971. INTRODUCTION Obedience is the goal. Practised constantly, it is the only mentality and thought, that will allow a potential slave to develop into his slavery. A slave's only pleasure is from obeying. These principles allow a slave to obey, at all times and in all circumstances. Living by the Principles both provides for becoming a slave and living as slave. Embrace these Principles. Find ways to occupy your whole life with them. That is My purpose, and yours. 2. GENERAL BEHAVIOUR a. A slave never asks permission, nor is permitted the use of the word "may." Either of those expressions implies that the slave could want something that the SlaveMaster does not. The SlaveMaster's response then becomes one of either acquiescing to the request of the slave or denying the request. Since a slave only wants and needs what his SlaveMaster wants and needs, there can be no conflict and the slave only asks the SlaveMaster's intention regarding the activity of the slave. b. A slave is denied the use of any of the items listed next, without first determining the SlaveMaster's explicit intention by asking. Whenever the slave is living in the SlaveMaster's home, the same applies, even when the SlaveMaster is away from the home, or the slave is away from the home. All activity must be requested in advance. The SlaveMaster must know of all the slave's activities, all the time, and no exceptions. Even when the slave is working, where the slave is, what he is eating or drinking, and where he is going must all be known before the slave leaves the SlaveMaster's home or presence. c. The specific items which never are used, except when ordered, include:
d. The slave never, under any circumstances touches the SlaveMaster's devices used in the control, discipline, or training of His slaves. If a slave is ever ordered to bring any device to Him, the slave will do it only with his mouth. If he cannot, then the device is left alone. e. Anything, including clothing that the SlaveMaster puts onto a slave is left on. It is considered to be locked on, and only removed by the SlaveMaster. Included are items such as hats. To remove a restraining device or anything else used in his training would be a violation of both this and the previous principle. 3. OBEDIENCE It is the heart, character, and fibre of a slave to be obedient. Obedience is the prompt, eager, and cheerful wanting only what his Owner wants. It is disobedient for a slave to:
4. ENTERING AND LEAVING SLAVEMASTER'S PRESENCE AND CONTROL a. A slave never says "hello" or "goodbye" to his SlaveMaster. A process of entering the SlaveMaster's presence and leaving it, described below replaces these two processes. When a slave "says hello" he is surrendering himself to the SlaveMaster's control. When the slave "says goodbye" he is asking to have that control extended while away from the SlaveMaster. This principle applies whenever:
ENTERING PRESENCE Whenever it would be appropriate for a non-slave to say "hello", a slave PRESENTS himself as soon as practical. Only urgent needs, like emptying a car parked in a loading zone would delay the PRESENTATION. PRESENTING is a motionless position, slave up on his knees, not sitting on his legs, knees spread shoulder width, arms locked behind his back with each hand clasping the opposite wrist, chest held strongly, head bowed, eyes down. The PRESENTING position presents the strength and the power of the slave. It is not a weak, nor a submissive position. After a slave feels the PRESENCE of his slavery, the slave says one time to his SlaveMaster, "SlaveMaster, Sir." First, the slave takes whatever time is necessary to feel his slavery, the strength and dedication of his slavery, to let the rush and static of the outside world to subside, and to find the peace, power, and presence of his slavery before speaking his Owner's name, the name of the man with whom he will share his identity, and accept his control. The slave remains motionless in the PRESENT position, until he is either told to "continue", or given some other order. When told to "continue", if the slave was in the process of fulfilling some other order when he PRESENTED himself, he returns to that activity. If the slave was not fulfilling another order, he is free to honestly express himself physically after he is told to "continue." The slave might wrap his arms around the leg, etc. Afterwards, the slave will be ordered to disrobe. If the slave is in the SlaveMaster's home and he has not already been ordered to disrobe, the slave asks, "Do You wish Your slave to continue Sir?" If the response is affirmative, the slave says, "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You Sir!" and immediately proceeds to the slave space, or other designated area, to disrobe. LEAVING THE SLAVEMASTER'S PRESENCE Whether the slave is leaving to go to work, leaving because a session is ended, to fulfil some order that the slave was given earlier, or because the SlaveMaster is leaving, The slave does the following:
ENTERING THE SLAVEMASTER'S CONSCIOUSNESS The two processes above, describe how a slave is to say "hello" and "goodbye." That applies only when a slave and his SlaveMaster comes into the same space, or they separate. Within the same space, there are times when there is a temporary break in the control, the slave is separated within the building to fulfil an order he has been given. General control is exercised by authorising everything the slave does. Specific control is lost because the slave is out of the line of sight, or in another room. There are specific ways a slave must leave his Owner's consciousness and re-enter it.
LEAVING THE SLAVEMASTER'S CONSCIOUSNESS. The slave separates himself physically from his SlaveMaster only when:
5. COMMUNICATION a. "SlaveMaster" is the SlaveMaster's role, title, and name. A slave will always refer to Him only as "SlaveMaster" or "The SlaveMaster" depending on how it is being used in a sentence, and to whom the slave is speaking. b. A slave's primary reference to himself is always "Your slave" when speaking to his SlaveMaster. When speaking with others, a slave refers to himself as "this slave" and uses "he" as a secondary reference. A slave will never use the words "me", "my" or "I". The only exceptions are that a slave can say "my SlaveMaster", "my slave brother", or "my slavery" c. A slave says "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You Sir!" every time the slave:
The slave says "Sir, No Sir, Thank You Sir!" when his response is negative. The slave may occasionally strengthen the response by responding, "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You SlaveMaster Sir!". Another alternative when answering a question for information only is "Yes SlaveMaster, Thank You Sir!" These variations are intended to only be used appropriately, and cannot become a substitute for the normal response of "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank Your Sir!" d. A slave never speaks unless spoken to. When the slave feels a need for the SlaveMaster's attention, the slave comes into the SlaveMaster's consciousness by: i. PRESENTING himself appropriately, either full or standing ii. Immediately asking only one time "SlaveMaster Sir?" The slave expresses his request for the SlaveMaster's attention regardless of what the SlaveMaster is doing at the time. The request is presented in such a way as to not disturb what the SlaveMaster is doing at the time, but sufficient to make the SlaveMaster aware of the request. iii. Awaits the SlaveMaster's acknowledgement iv. If asking a "yes" or "no" question says "Sir, do You wish Your slave to...Sir" (whatever yes/no question the slave has), beginning with "Sir" and ending with "Sir". v. If asking to piss, asks "Sir, do You wish Your slave to take Your piss, Sir?" vi. If tending to himself, asks "Sir, do You wish Your slave to take care of himself, Sir?" When the slave feels the need to do more then piss, like shaving, showering, taking a crap, etc., this is the appropriate question. vii. The slave responds "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You Sir!" no matter what the SlaveMaster's response to any question. viii. If the question implies an action (as when the slave asks about pissing), the slave, after the normal "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You Sir!" response, must complete what is then an order. ix. If the question doesn't imply the slave's action, the slave must additionally ask "Sir, do You wish Your slave to continue Sir?" Again, the slave will respond "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You Sir!" no matter what answer is given. x. If the slave feels the need to ask a question that is longer than a yes/no question, the slave asks:
xi. If the slave feels the need to make a comment, he asks:
e. When the slave is already engaged in conversation with the SlaveMaster, the slave doesn't have to enter the SlaveMaster's consciousness by saying "SlaveMaster Sir?" f. When the SlaveMaster has asked his slave a question, the slave doesn't need to ask the SlaveMaster's intention regarding making a comment,. g. A slave refers to other slaves as "slaveboy", as "slave (first name), "slave brother", or the BIRTH number of a BORN slave. h. "Beg Your pardon Sir" is the only way a slave expresses his accidental activities. A slave never says "sorry", nor "excuse me." It would be appropriate for a slave to use "Beg Your Pardon Sir" in a crowd when he has bumped into another. i. A slave enters into a conversation in the SlaveMaster's presence by asking "SlaveMaster Sir?" "Sir, do You wish Your slave to make a comment Sir?" This allows the slave into the conversation. The SlaveMaster might also directly invite the slave into the conversation with a sign, a word, a look, or a nod which indicates the SlaveMaster's order to speak. The slave, as always, responds "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You Sir!" j. When speaking with the SlaveMaster, every sentence is begun and ended with the word "Sir", and EVERY pause filled with "Sir" whether for a breath, a new thought, or any other purpose. When there is more than one thought to express, the slave can use a single "Sir" between sentences so that two "Sir's" aren't expressed together. Thoughts are expressed clearly, succinctly, and without run-on. Each thought is ended, rather than held with "you know", "uh" or any other holder of speech. No holder of speech is ever used except for "Sir." k. slaves are free to speak between themselves, even in the presence of their SlaveMaster, so long as it is not distracting, does not compete with what the SlaveMaster wants to express, can be immediately and easily interrupted by the SlaveMaster interjecting, and doesn't interfere with the position the slave is currently holding. Being PRESENTED is a non-moving position. Speech is not an excuse to move. l. A slave can always ask for clarification and understanding. he can ask if the SlaveMaster is ready to receive his comments, but a slave does not ever argue! m. In writing, any reference to a slave is always in the small case, even at the beginning of a sentence. References to men of respect are always capitalised. The use of "I", "me", and "my" applies to writing, the same as in speech. 6. ORDERS a. Every question a slave asks regarding the SlaveMaster's intention becomes an order once the SlaveMaster answers. b. PRESENT STANDING is the same position as PRESENT, except that the slave is standing with his feet shoulder-width apart. It, too, is a motionless stance which the slave maintains until he is told to do differently by being given another order. A slave never asks whether the SlaveMaster wants him to do something. A slave who PRESENTS himself is saying with his presence that he has completed all orders, has no need for the SlaveMaster's attention, and is ready for the next order. c. When all current orders are complete, the slave comes within the SlaveMaster's line of sight, and presents himself. If the SlaveMaster is sitting or lying down, the slave presents himself in the standard way, fully PRESENTED, on his knees.. When the SlaveMaster is standing, the slave has the option to PRESENT himself STANDING, but can always fully PRESENT himself whenever that is what feels natural. To follow his SlaveMaster's position, a slave may move his eyes from the downward position while in the PRESENT STANDING position, and may change position to avoid loosing track of the SlaveMaster's location. The slave always remains in a position that the slave can respond to the SlaveMaster's hand signals, or call, unless ordered to "stay." d. Anything else may be added as is deemed important. Further, as time progresses, through his training, advice will become orders for the slave. Some of those orders will include what the slave is to do between sessions to improve his life, to prepare for slavery. Ultimately, with BIRTH, the control is absolute, and life long. During the training, the orders deal with obvious improvements that should be made to prepare the slave for the responsibilities he will have after BIRTH. 7. BEHAVIOUR a. In general, a slave must learn and accept all slave behaviour as being normal, and learns to behave in a way that IS natural-looking and feeling. Additionally, the slave always acts and responds to make the SlaveMaster look "right" about the orders He gives. A slave does not respond in any way that causes the appearance that the SlaveMaster has made a mistake. This is not a game of "gotcha." The slave is considered a part of the SlaveMaster's body. The slave is to learn to act as naturally, with the same obedience, lack of attitude, and co-ordination as any other part of the SlaveMaster's body. To act any other way, is to act in a disabled, disrespectful, and disobedient way. A slave does not invite mockery or criticism, and feels none when he is doing as ordered. If the slave cannot accept his behaviour as normal, it is unfair to expect the public to accept it as normal. A slave always acts with dignity, and in a way that reflects positively on his Owner and his brothers. b. A slave stands, no matter what the circumstance, whenever his SlaveMaster stands or enters the same room or space as a slave. Even if the slave has been told to "stay" or to "sit", that order is only good until his SlaveMaster next enters or stands. c. When told to "sit", a slave sits on the floor. That is what "sit" means to a slave. When a slave is told to "lie down," he does so on a slave mattress or pad, not a bed. Beds and chairs are furniture which a slave is not authorised to use without being specifically ordered to do so. d. A slave does not sit anywhere, at any time, without the specific order of his SlaveMaster, except for in a room designated as slave space. That space may be designated within the SlaveMaster's home, or at any other location. If such a space is not designated, then a slave is NOT free to sit. Even when in the slave space, if the SlaveMaster enters that space, the slave would immediately rise to the PRESENT position, and remain in that position until told to "continue" or until given another order. e. A slave never begins to eat until his SlaveMaster has begun, AND everyone due respects who is within the SlaveMaster's communication or concern has begun. A slave's authority to eat is given when the SlaveMaster authorises food to be prepared for the slave, or when a slave is authorised to order from a menu. A slave does not ask if it is his SlaveMaster's intention for the slave to eat when there is food sitting in front of the slave, but he doesn't begin to consume that food until all, except slaves, have begun. If any Master in the area is not eating, the slave must have an explicit order to begin eating. At an eating table, a slave stands PRESENTED, rather than fully presenting while awaiting orders to sit and begin. f. A slave only uses the toilet the SlaveMaster has designated for him to use, and never uses the toilet seat, nor stands in front of that toilet to piss. When a slave uses the designated toilet or any clean, private toilet, the slave lifts the lid and seat, then sits on the rim of the seat. Afterwards, the seat and lid are lowered. g. When a slave feels the need for food or drink, the slave always asks his SlaveMaster His need first, then adds, "and Your slave?" A sample behaviour would include:
i. Whenever another slave presents, all slaves in the presence of the one who is required to PRESENT will PRESENT with that slave, i.e. a slave never watches another slave PRESENT himself, he joins the other slave in PRESENTING. Once PRESENTED, all slaves must wait for an order which allows each slave to move once again. The only exception is when the NON-PRESENTED slaves have been ordered to sleep and are in their ordered positions to sleep or when bound or otherwise encumbered in such a way that the PRESENTATION position cannot be physically achieved. PRESENTED slaves always align in an orderly fashion. j. A slave walks to the left and about one step behind his SlaveMaster, with his hands behind his back. Even when walking, as always, a slave only speaks after he has requested "SlaveMaster Sir?" unless responding to his SlaveMaster's questions.
9. PROTOCOL AROUND OTHERS IN THE LIFESTYLE
This slave has read everything above, understands it, and agrees to accept, and live by the principles listed. Failure to comply will be used only to indicate this slave's intention to immediately end this relationship, and to end his training..
My very best to you in this very serious pursuit. | |
